The restaurant/bar was in north central Minnesota up in the lake country. At the table just behind me there were four men who were evidently from the area - probably regulars at this establishment.
One of the men said, "Danny ain't dumb. He just kinda looks it."
It dawned on me that this was not a put down. He was speaking of someone that they all knew. The man doing the speaking was no fashion plate or cultured icon. He was a guy speaking about another guy. This Danny was friend who is not any more perfect than the men around that table.
Man talk. Well, yes, men are given to blunt evaluation of each other. We do sometimes give the impression of just coming out of the cave of primitive existence. We usually aren't dumb but we often kinda look like it.
Females wonder about us and our frequently primitive ways. Actually we are not all that far from the Cave but do have some redeeming social value.
One of the men said, "Danny ain't dumb. He just kinda looks it."
It dawned on me that this was not a put down. He was speaking of someone that they all knew. The man doing the speaking was no fashion plate or cultured icon. He was a guy speaking about another guy. This Danny was friend who is not any more perfect than the men around that table.
Man talk. Well, yes, men are given to blunt evaluation of each other. We do sometimes give the impression of just coming out of the cave of primitive existence. We usually aren't dumb but we often kinda look like it.
Females wonder about us and our frequently primitive ways. Actually we are not all that far from the Cave but do have some redeeming social value.